We often hear break up stories and it’s always the ladies who get broken and happen to be cheated on or used as a means to an end, but that isn’t always the case.
I saw a tweet recently asking guys who have had heart breaks to share their stories.
Going through the story one after the other, I realised how guys also get broken at a point, they also become victims, they get cheated on and are used as well.
While the ladies are mostly the victims the guys also suffer same. What they experience at that point is so different from a lady’s experience so we hardly understand them or the actions they portray because they will keep it to themselves rather than share it.
I understand how imperfect we humans are but once we’ve decided to be with someone and try working things out with them, we should constantly make an effort to be truthful, open and loyal to the person.
No one deserves to be used as a means to an end. Everyone has the right to be loved unconditionally. If you’re not ready to compromise to make someone feel important and needed in your life, you don’t waste their time and yours too just to get them played at the end.
Redefine your options in life and if you realise you’re not ready to be accountable to another and be committed in keeping a relationship at its best then it’s good you stay single till you’re ready.
And if you are in a relationship and you feel you don’t like the other person anymore, you talk with the person, straighten things between you and if things can’t be resolved you end on mutual understandings.
You don’t just leave someone broken and think it’s nothing serious.
In as much as we are not perfect, we can build a relationship and avoid getting the other person, hurt and broken.
Cheating is easy, try something more challenging like being faithful.
This is not just in relation to dating and courtship even in friendships we’ve got to give people the ultimate respect and do them good at all times.